The same message is being delivered three different
ways-email, voice mail, and face to face.
From each of these three deliveries the recipient will probably feel
differently. Of the three, I felt the
voice mail was the most effective, email in the middle, and the face to face
delivery the least effective.
The voice mail was the most effective to me because it
balances the weak points of the other two.
The email’s sentence structure and lack of specifics created a
heightened sense of anxiety for the recipient and from the sender. One response of the reader on reading the
email could be, “What do you want me to do about it?” or “When do you need it?” The face to face delivery of the message
might be the most direct route, but it also corners the recipient who the
sender is acknowledging may be overwhelmed.
The recipient might feel pressured to give a response that will make the
person happy, but might be unrealistic or just plain avoiding the issue.
The voice mail combines the best parts of the email and the
face to face. It communicates the need
and does a better job of recognizing the stress of the situation. The recipient has time to construct a
response without feeling threatened or overly pressured.
This exercise underscores some important lessons about
communication. When something is in
writing, proper sentence structure and specific information should be included because
the message lacks the emotion and empathy a voice lends. Face to face situations should be saved for
crisis mode or if a good working relationship already exists. Being forced to deal with a situation right
now can lead to unrealistic responses or friction. A final thought is that each of these
examples seems to fall under informal communication rather than formal
communication. Limiting these more
informal types of communication helps make sure that feelings are not hurt or
misunderstandings occur (Portny, Mantel, Meredith, Shafer, Sutton, &
Kramer, 2008).
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